Without a thought to the problems of wedded couples in the west, couples who
are in love in Saudi Arabia are made to divorce and, in some cases, sent to prison.
Fatima and Mansour. This happened to 34-year old Fatima Al Timani, who has been imprisoned with
her one-year old son in the city of Damman for six months. Fatima is only the
latest victim of the forced divorce phenomenon, a practice where the families
can call off a marriage even against the spouses’ will. Her story has received
much sympathy in the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia and various intellectuals have arranged
a petition addressed to King Abdullah, to resolve the problem of forced divorces
and to reform women's rights. Fatima's saga began two years ago, when she married
a man called Mansour who had lied about his family's social status to gain her
family's consent to marriage. When Fatima's brothers found out about Mansour's
humble origins they denounced the couple to the courts in Jeddah, accusing them
of illegal cohabitation. The pair, who declare that they are still in love and
who have had two children, were separated and imprisoned. Suleiman is the one-year
old son who lives with his mother in prison, whilst two-year old Noha lives with
his father. Their situation became more complicated at the beginning of February,
when the Court of Riyadh confirmed that the appeals-court ruling remained the
same. Fatima’s husband Mansour believes that the sentence is 'un-Islamic' and
consequently has refused to recognise it. "If the family wants her to marry another
man even when we consider ourselves married, there is nothing I can do. God will
be our judge". According to Irfan Al Alawi, director of the Centre for Islamic
Pluralism in London, Fatima and Mansour's story is not an isolated case, but one
that concerns at least 19 other couples forced to divorce, where the affairs are
in the hands of the Saudi courts.
Rania and Saud. A similar story is that of Dr. Rania Albou Enin, eight months pregnant and awaiting
an appeal court’s decision against a divorce imposed by her father. Rania is in
hiding whilst the husband, Saud Al Khaledi, is in prison in Al Khobar. Her saga
rests heavily on the fact that her family is poor and neither her father nor her
brothers wanted to forsake her financial support. Rania was working in a hospital
and had a modest income, so her father and brothers refused to approve the marriage
and used violence to force her not to marry, as it would deprive them of an extra
salary. According to Islamic law, if a woman's guardian denies consent of marriage
without a valid reason, the court can remove the legal rights of the guardian
and nominate another. So Rania turned to the courts in Al Khobar. When her father
found out about the case against him he stepped down violently and shut her in
the house. When she was finally able to leave a year ago, Rania went to Bahrain
where a judge agreed to become her guardian and to marry her to Al Khaledi. When
the newlyweds returned to Saudi Arabia, her father told the authorities that the
husband had raped her. The judge decided to annul the marriage with the father's
approval and due to “tribal incompatibility between the couple”. Saud, the husband,
could choose whether to hand Rania back to her family or to go to prison - he
chose the latter so as not to stain her honour, as in the meantime she had become
pregnant. Ibrahim Mehari, his lawyer, told him not to be optimistic because the
case could end up like the last one. His legal office follows the cases of six
other people in the same situation as Rania and Saud.